share time: 2025-11-28 12:30:14
Lin Xiaoman, a workplace people-pleaser, used to take on all requests: covering for colleagues' mistakes, lending money to relatives with no return, and being an emotional trash can for her ambiguous partner. Until she missed a promotion defense because of helping others and had a total breakdown. She started to "refuse properly"—saying "I have my own project to finish" to unreasonable overtime, "I just paid my mortgage" to endless borrowing, and "I want preference, not being an option" to perfunctory suitors. Unexpectedly, after refusing, her project was recognized by the top leader, relatives stopped leeching, and she even met her true love who understands her. It turns out "learning to say no" is the key to good luck?
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