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Lin Xiaoman, a corporate slave, is a well-known "people pleaser". She never says "no" to colleagues' overtime requests, relatives' money borrowings, or friends' calls to be an "emotional trash can". As a result, she ruins her health, misses her grandma's last moments, and even loses a promotion. Until she meets Su Yan, a psychologist who once struggled with saying "no" too, in the hospital. Su Yan's words—"Refusal isn't coldness; it's tenderness to yourself"—wake her up. Lin starts practicing "effective refusal": first saying "I'm spending time with my mom tonight" to a colleague, then "I just paid my mortgage" to a relative, and finally "I want preference, not an option" to an ambiguous partner. Surprisingly, her life takes off—she gets promoted, repairs her relationship with her parents, and even meets her Mr. Right. The good things she once ignored are now doubling up.
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